“And He gave them their request, but sent leanness into their soul” (Psalm 106:15).
I sometimes hear people say, “I have been wrestling with God in prayer!”
My first thought always is, “I hope you lost.”
If you have been trying to bend God your way-
– then that is a problem.
Prayer is not trying to move God your way.
It is moving yourself His way.
In fact, I’m glad that God hasn’t said yes to every prayer I have ever prayed.
When I look back on some things I’ve prayed for-
I realize that if the Lord would have allowed them, they could have destroyed me.
They were not the right things or the right situations.
So, God graciously and lovingly said no.
In John 15:7, Jesus gave an incredible promise regarding answered prayer.
He said, “If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire, and it shall be done for you.”
From the original language, this verse could be translated-
“If you maintain a living communion with Me, and My word is at home with you, I command you to ask at once for yourself whatever your heart desires, and it will be yours.”
When I read a promise like that-
I gravitate immediately toward the part that says I can ask whatever my heart desires and it will be mine.
But before that, Jesus said:
“If you maintain a living communion with Me, and My word is at home with you…”
If this is happening in your life-
– then you are going to want what God wants.
If you are maintaining a living communion with God and His words are at home in your heart-
– then your outlook, desires—and in time, your prayers will change.