Golden Rule
Jesus told His disciples-
“In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you” (Matt 7:12).
Most of us refer to this code of conduct as the- “Golden Rule.”
In theory-
– we would probably agree that this is a good foundation for a healthy relationship.
Yet it’s tough to live up to such a standard.
If we made a list of the ways we hope to be treated-
– and then compared it with our own behaviour,
– we would likely fall short.
And of course, it’s easy to love when others are treating us well.
But how do we respond when their behaviour is hurtful or unpleasant?
The truth is-
Jesus meant for us to love others all the time, not just when they are lovable.
Regardless of their attitude toward us-
– we are to think about the relationship qualities we value—like loyalty, trust, encouragement, forgiveness, acceptance, and protection—and let these flow from us in their direction.
Unfortunately-
– our society encourages selfishness, greed, and pride, which are enemies of the love Jesus commanded.
But when we care for others in the way the Lord prescribes-
– relationships can deepen and thrive.
Treating others with this kind of love isn’t natural or easy, especially when people are unkind.
In fact, loving as Jesus commanded is impossible—on our own.
But when we trust Christ as Saviour-
– the Holy Spirit empowers us and lives His life through us. Gal. 2:20.
Take time to list the ways that you hope others will treat you.
Now ask-
Is that how I treat people?
Pray for God to reveal one area where He will help you to apply the Golden Rule!